Scary Ex Survival System Frequently Asked Questions

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1. What is the Scary Ex Survival System?

The Scary Ex Survival System is a step-by-step program designed to help women stay safe from dangerous or threatening ex-partners. It provides expert guidance on risk assessment, legal protections, safety planning, home security, and emotional resilience to help you navigate your situation with confidence and clarity.

Common Concerns & Objections

2. “I don’t have time for a long course.”

We understand how overwhelming life feels right now, which is why this program is designed to be fast and practical.

✔ The core training can be completed in just a few hours.

✔ Lessons are broken into short, easy-to-follow videos so you can watch at your own pace.

✔ You’ll get ready-made templates and checklists to save time.

This isn’t about adding more to your plate—it’s about giving you the tools to make life safer and easier.

Your safety is priceless, but we know money can be tight. That’s why we offer:
✔ Free threat assessment video so you can start taking action today.
✔ Payment plans so you don’t have to pay everything upfront.
✔ Low-cost webinar if you need guidance but aren’t ready for the full program.

Many survivors spend thousands on legal fees, moving costs, and security upgrades—this program helps you avoid costly mistakes and get it right the first time.

No program can guarantee absolute safety, but this system is built on proven strategies that have helped thousands of women:
✔ Survivor-tested techniques for real-life situations
✔ Expert-backed safety planning that aligns with law enforcement best practices
✔ Immediate, actionable steps you can take today

If you do nothing, your risk remains the same—or gets worse. This program helps you take control and make informed decisions to protect yourself.

Some safety advice is available online, but most of it is generic and incomplete. The Scary Ex Survival System is different because:
✔ It’s tailored for women facing dangerous ex-partners—not just general breakups.
✔ It provides step-by-step guidance, not scattered tips that leave you overwhelmed.
✔ It’s designed to work in real life, based on survivor stories and expert strategies.

Most free advice doesn’t tell you what actually works or what’s a waste of time. This program saves you from dangerous guesswork.

Every woman’s situation is unique. If you're unsure, email us and we will set up a free call to discuss your needs and see if the program is the right fit for you.

3. “I can’t afford this right now.”

4. “How do I know this will actually keep me safe?”

5. “Can’t I find this information for free?”

6. How do I know if this program is right for me?

Program Details

7. Who is the Scary Ex Survival System for?

This program is specifically designed for women who have:

✔ Left a romantic relationship in the last 12 months
✔ Are afraid of that ex-partner
✔ Are motivated to learn what to do to keep themselves and their families as safe as possible from that ex
✔ Are willing to act on the advice of someone who has been there and survived

If you have left a partner that you're afraid of in the last 12 months and you're feeling afraid, overwhelmed, or unsure what to do next, this program is for you!

Unfortunately, the tools and education needed for a woman to leave an abusive relationship are not the same as a woman who has left and is still in danger. If you are still with your scary partner, we recommend:

doing the free Does He Scare You Quiz on our website
watching the videos on our YouTube channel
Contacting your local domestic violence organization or thehotline.org and creating a safety plan to get out of that relationship

You’ll learn how to:
✔ Assess the threat level of your ex-partner
✔ Create a complete, personalized safety plan that covers your home, work, and other life activities
✔ Protect yourself legally with restraining orders, stay away letters, parenting plans, and court preparation
✔ Secure your home and digital privacy
✔ Mentally and emotionally retake control of your life and begin to build the life that you want
✔ Build a strong support system and regain confidence

If that is what you're looking for, click the button below to get started.

The program is online and self-paced, so you can go through it at your own speed. It includes:

✔ Video lessons with expert guidance

✔ Downloadable resources (checklists, templates, legal tips)

✔ Survivor-tested strategies

✔ Optional weekly support calls via Zoom

The core training can be completed within hours, but the strategies and action steps are designed for long-term safety planning. You can go at your own pace and revisit the materials anytime.

Yes. Your privacy and safety are the top priority. You can access the program anonymously, and no personal details are shared. You’ll also learn digital safety tips to prevent tracking by your ex.

While this program includes legal guidance and best practices, it is not a substitute for an attorney. If you need legal advice, we recommend consulting a lawyer. The program provides resources on legal rights, protection orders, and court preparation to help you navigate the legal system effectively.

Due to the nature of the program and the immediate access to digital materials, we do not offer refunds. However, your satisfaction is important to us! Please reach out if you have concerns and we will work to address them.

If you have questions or need support:

We offer live, weekly support calls for members.
You are encouraged to join our private FaceBook group for program members.
You can email our team for guidance.

We encourage you to share our free resources, but for safety and ethical reasons, each paid enrollment is for one person only. If your friend needs help, please have them visit our website to access the free Quiz and Webinar to get started.

While this program includes legal guidance and best practices, it is not a substitute for an attorney. If you need legal advice, we recommend consulting a lawyer. The program provides resources on legal rights, protection orders, and court preparation to help you navigate the legal system effectively, but we are not attorneys and cannot give professional legal advice.

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Scary Ex Survival System Frequently Asked Questions

1. What is the Scary Ex Survival System?

Common Concerns & Objections

2. “I don’t have time for a long course.”

3. “I can’t afford this right now.”

4. “How do I know this will actually keep me safe?”

5. “Can’t I find this information for free?”

6. How do I know if this program is right for me?

Program Details

7. Who is the Scary Ex Survival System for?

9. What will I learn in the Scary Ex Survival System?

8. Can I be in this program if I'm still living with my abuser?

10. How is this program delivered?

11. How long does the program take?

12. Is the program confidential?

13. Do I need legal help to use this program?

14. Do you offer refunds?

15. What if I need help while going through the program?

16. Can I share this program with a friend who needs it?

17. Do I need legal help to use this program?

18. How do I sign up?